tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post5497420498291002598..comments2024-02-11T10:15:30.364+00:00Comments on Small Treasures: Neighbour From Hell Bullies AgainPensive Pensionerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16753467730053378848noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-2049099541447955642021-05-14T12:31:31.886+01:002021-05-14T12:31:31.886+01:00Thank you so much xThank you so much xPensive Pensionerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16753467730053378848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-86628558851970426072021-05-06T11:32:59.796+01:002021-05-06T11:32:59.796+01:00Oh, what an awful situation. As others have said, ...Oh, what an awful situation. As others have said, keep notes, photos, videos etc. and pass on to the Police, Council and anyone else you can think of. Also, ask (nice) neighbours to do the same. The more people complain, the more notice will be taken. And please, for the baby's sake, contact Social Services. I hope things are resolved soon for you. xxhappy hookerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06895402170116525521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-88403344504208953142021-05-05T19:18:33.944+01:002021-05-05T19:18:33.944+01:00Yes, Annie, we do have laws against anti social be...Yes, Annie, we do have laws against anti social behaviour which is what she is now indulging in. My hubby took a sleeping pill and put cotton wool in both ears on Sunday and still failed to drown out the bangs and shouting. I suppose I could resort to ear plugs too but I do need to listen out for hubby in case he needs me when his pain is bad as we now sleep in separate rooms. Thanks so much for your comment though. Pensive Pensionerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16753467730053378848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-7153553352497383042021-05-05T17:36:18.591+01:002021-05-05T17:36:18.591+01:00She sounds absolutely awful. I would definitely re...She sounds absolutely awful. I would definitely report her (don’t you have any noise laws in the UK?).<br />I would also suggest earplugs. I am a very light sleeper and began using them some years ago. They work very well for me and might help in these situations. Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06894336636671959702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-77553076463645893192021-05-05T12:27:40.822+01:002021-05-05T12:27:40.822+01:00I have no idea what makes her behave in this manne...I have no idea what makes her behave in this manner. She seems to have it all: nice home, good job and a lovely baby. She is so selfish though and I do worry about the baby. It's very telling that her boyfriend, the baby's father, didn't stay long after the first lockdown. He was a lovely chap. Pensive Pensionerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16753467730053378848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-8638741222228702422021-05-05T12:24:28.637+01:002021-05-05T12:24:28.637+01:00Thank you, Beverley, I have resolved to do just th...Thank you, Beverley, I have resolved to do just that. I refuse to be bullied any longer now that our health is suffering. Bless you for your good wishes xPensive Pensionerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16753467730053378848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-38896888784717315032021-05-05T12:01:29.468+01:002021-05-05T12:01:29.468+01:00It takes all sorts as they say. I wonder what caus...It takes all sorts as they say. I wonder what causes her to behave in such an anti social manner. And what role model did she grow up with. Poor child being caught up in it all. xWinters End Ramblerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17924495691256051693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-41464156975952170212021-05-04T22:54:06.918+01:002021-05-04T22:54:06.918+01:00I am really sorry to hear that your young anti soc...I am really sorry to hear that your young anti social neighbour is back to her old tricks with her chums again. Every little injustice should be written down, recorded and passed to appropriate departments until something is done. Thinking of you and wishing you a restfull night xmeandmysmallcornerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08124121125104621376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-34027369461517221472021-05-04T19:54:44.072+01:002021-05-04T19:54:44.072+01:00Thank you, potty, she doesn't respond to '...Thank you, potty, she doesn't respond to 'nice' and I refuse to be bullied at the age of 71. Thanks so much for your good wishes.Pensive Pensionerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16753467730053378848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-3711534870496963172021-05-04T19:53:24.400+01:002021-05-04T19:53:24.400+01:00Thank you, Stephenie, that is a great idea of your...Thank you, Stephenie, that is a great idea of yours. I've started making notes of her behaviour too.Pensive Pensionerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16753467730053378848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-4471945419213848572021-05-04T19:52:17.715+01:002021-05-04T19:52:17.715+01:00Oh I do hope so, jeangenie, I do hope so. Thank yo...Oh I do hope so, jeangenie, I do hope so. Thank you so much for your comment.Pensive Pensionerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16753467730053378848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-53820822046619189632021-05-04T19:51:28.500+01:002021-05-04T19:51:28.500+01:00Oh I do hope she moves on and leaves you all alone...Oh I do hope she moves on and leaves you all alone at last. It will be such a relief I expect. Personally, I am about to telephone the council to see what can be done. Fingers crossed...Pensive Pensionerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16753467730053378848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-80454486425006552072021-05-04T19:48:57.886+01:002021-05-04T19:48:57.886+01:00Thank you, Tania. I didn't expect to have comp...Thank you, Tania. I didn't expect to have complete privacy on a new estate like this but didn't expect to be kept awake all night on a regular basis either. Daytime noise isn't such a problem, it's when it disrupts our sleep that we despair. We are at the end of our tether.Pensive Pensionerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16753467730053378848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-71597105564236207582021-05-04T19:45:27.190+01:002021-05-04T19:45:27.190+01:00Thank you, Hester, I'm watching closely.Thank you, Hester, I'm watching closely.Pensive Pensionerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16753467730053378848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-81945478692389159852021-05-04T09:30:16.605+01:002021-05-04T09:30:16.605+01:00So sorry about your antisocial neighbours. You mus...So sorry about your antisocial neighbours. You must do what you can as you have tried softly softly. Best wishes.pottyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06834163803780455512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-54190897436455043752021-05-03T22:33:49.672+01:002021-05-03T22:33:49.672+01:00Oh, you have my sympathy. I had neighbors like th...Oh, you have my sympathy. I had neighbors like that in my first home, and it was nonstop stress and frustration. Code enforcement showed up and cited them. They also had to demolish some unpermitted structures that they had built. Things are quiet now. I really hope your situation improves. I would take photos and videotape. TheAwakenedSoulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11636961399581011120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-2410038699670315772021-05-03T17:34:26.237+01:002021-05-03T17:34:26.237+01:00So sorry you are having to put up with all this ha...So sorry you are having to put up with all this hassle some people are just beyond believe and very selfish let’s hope karma takes a hand in this jeangeniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11426192262855414999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-44696768988850547362021-05-03T17:34:09.005+01:002021-05-03T17:34:09.005+01:00So sorry you are having to put up with all this ha...So sorry you are having to put up with all this hassle some people are just beyond believe and very selfish let’s hope karma takes a hand in this jeangeniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11426192262855414999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-57051702680986136452021-05-03T17:13:42.562+01:002021-05-03T17:13:42.562+01:00Have you spoken to the local council, children'...Have you spoken to the local council, children's services or antisocial behaviour departments, they can help. Here we and our neighbours are quietly holding our breath, our mad nasty neighbour has been telling people she is looking for a plot of land to move to, after 11 years, can we hope. Poppypatchworkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12749159567150084975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-69472367937539565322021-05-03T17:01:54.591+01:002021-05-03T17:01:54.591+01:00I feel for you I really do. I've seen so much ...I feel for you I really do. I've seen so much new housing going up in the nearby town with very little space between. It's a recipe for disaster. I hope you get some joy from the reporting. Living Alone in Your 60'shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08848266282669835475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170481308375173858.post-16847670841518706072021-05-03T15:52:37.144+01:002021-05-03T15:52:37.144+01:00If you are concerned about a child I suggest you p...If you are concerned about a child I suggest you phone your local social services, ask to speak to the duty social worker and share your concerns.Hard up Hesterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02561421853249973134noreply@blogger.com